Crocadilly101

I love this game and so does my daughter so I bought on both our phones but we are having a hard time playing together as we cannot play it just gets us to set up our worms and pass the turn, I dunno. The other issue is when a call or message comes through the sound goes off and does not come back, worms is all about the sound! Please help! Question: when I am playing with another person online can I watch their moves?? I want to see what they do, if not then I want a refund for my daughter’s purchase as we might as well just pass and play.